yeah I will - but may I point out the 100's of times she's said stuff like this to me? Generally I'm pretty good about keeping my composure considering how often it happens.

However, even if I had said something like that to you without you first saying something even more insulting to me, this is irrelevant. You were responding to Michael and not to me. AFAICS, Michael has never said anything insulting to you. I think that you owe him an apology and should be careful in the future to make sure that you know to whom you are responding. Tsk, tsk, tsk!