>>What is going on with these guys- leaving gorgeous women like that alone?
They're afraid to be turned into a #metoo culprit?
>>Something is going on.
IMHO the missing attribute is "dignity." Somebody who has a predictable dignified station in life, no matter how low that might be, doesn't go around shooting up schools. The attitude that calls it erudite to label millions of fellow citizens "deplorable" might be a good place to start.
"... They ne'er cared for us
yet: suffer us to famish, and their store-houses
crammed with grain; make edicts for usury, to
support usurers; repeal daily any wholesome act
established against the rich, and provide more
piercing statutes daily, to chain up and restrain
the poor. If the wars eat us not up, they will; and
there's all the love they bear us."
-- Shakespeare: Coriolanus, Act 1, scene 1
