>>>Absolutely not a high-powered lawyer, but a world class parent. You really can't do both and those who pretend to try make their lives and the lives of the people around them nightmares.
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>LOL. What will you make of this, then: https://story.motherhood.com.my/blog/2018/06/22/woman-can-jacinda-ardern/
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>For the record, the baby daddy will be staying home as a full time mom. ;-)

I'm OK with Dad staying home. Day care is a modern abomination.

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>>>Your "torn" image, while it makes good stuff for talk shows, is nonsense.
>>>No arms are twisted.You make that choice.
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>if you want to buy a home as once was easily possible with one income, now you need two. But apparently that's all good, because you say it's a choice?
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"now you need two."

NEED?

WANT can easily become NEED.
During the school year, the student parking of the local high school here in Hamilton, NJ is overflowing as are similar lots in high schools throughout NJ.
There are hundreds of millions of dollars - possibly billions- worth of cars sitting idle in those lots throughout the state. Someone decided that high school kids NEED cars.

Junk food restaurants here are also overflowing with kids whose parents NEED to take them out because the don't have time to cook real meals.

Have you seen what kids now NEED for birthday parties?