>>>As a young teen, some classmates called me over to one of their houses. I went because I hoped to befriend them. When I poked my head in the door way, a 12 gauge shotgun blast blew a hole in the front door. I had nothing they wanted or needed. The authorities wondered what I did to deserve this. They then treated it as a case of boys being boys. The big hole in the door was my evidence. Women don't normally have such evidence, right? Unlike me, women have something desirable. The school, the town, the news and the police covered it up. We were advised to move out of town. Canada is such a friendly place. This is exactly what women experience? In fact, the vice principal met me in Toronto at a FoxPro conference. I think Mike Feltman heard this story from him.
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>>>This was in Alberta. I know for a fact my being from Montreal was part of their reason. It was a lynching, mob justice that failed. Thank God they did not know I am 25% Black and my biological grandmother was Jewish.
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>>>This is human behavior.
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>>No, this, too, is toxic masculinity. Those boys should have been prosecuted and punished. The people who gave them access to a shotgun should have been punished, too.
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>>Way too often, boys are not punished because it will ruin their futures. In the meantime, the people they harm aren't given the same consideration.
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>>Tamar
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>My ex-wife was not punished for her criminal actions. She was toxic femininity and she got no prosecution. Every one can be toxic.

Ah, now we get to the real issue here. I have no idea what happened with your ex-wife (and, of course, it's none of my business). If she behaved criminally and wasn't charged, that sucks.

Yes, any individual can be toxic, but toxic masculinity refers to a way in which boys are socialized that has negative consequences not just for them, but for society at large.

Tamar