>Tamar I have known for years. She recently threw the term toxic masculinity at me. Guess where it really belongs?

I just spent the time to find where I used that term because your message implies I applied to you. That is simply not true. You described being assaulted by a group of boys and them not getting punished. I said the behavior and their getting with it was a result of "toxic masculinity."

Do NOT suggest that I have used that term for anyone here.

Tamar