>>>>Tamar I have known for years. She recently threw the term toxic masculinity at me. Guess where it really belongs?
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>>>I just spent the time to find where I used that term because your message implies I applied to you. That is simply not true. You described being assaulted by a group of boys and them not getting punished. I said the behavior and their getting with it was a result of "toxic masculinity."
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>>>Do NOT suggest that I have used that term for anyone here.
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>>You absolutely used it against me. Message 01678427
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>I can't find a message with that number. I think there's a way to turn a message number into a link here, though I'm not sure.

The syntax is dash plus message number: #01678427 ... IIRC. We'll see when I send this.
Nope, that doesn't work anymore. But you can paste the mesage number in the middle textbox (between the combos) on the left dashboard here, search & tools.