>How do I tell Outlook to use a proxy connection in connection to outside internet email?
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>If I dail up it's fine, but in my network connection I get an IP error message.
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>The TCP/IP connection was terminated by your mail server. Please see "me" about it.
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You need to make some adjustments to the .INI file for the client proxy; the exact entries needed will vary according to what version of Proxy Server is in use. You might want to go to www.ntfaq.com and take a look at the entries on configuring Proxy Server.

>Is Proxy stripping away my ID to them on the way through?

No, it's not permitting some protocols and ports to pass through.