I did a test with a blank form to see which methods come first
I've put a messagebox() into all methods
then I find out the following:
when entering the FORM
LOAD
INIT
SHOW
ACTIVATE
REFRESH
GOTFOCUS

leaving the form:
DESTROY
UNLOAD

but I noticed that the method RELEASE is not executed unless I create a button with command : thisform.release
does anyone know the difference between leaving by button
or clicking the rigth corner ?