>>there is a FAQ that states the COM can't be used be VFP
>
>psssssst....
>is that FAQ dated pre SP3?

Uh, I dunno. It was updated recently, but I don't think they care too much about VFP. I was actually dated VFP5:

4. Objects that are created using the Create method do not receive events. Since non-blocking mode requires the Done event, you cannot instantiate the control using the Create method. You must place the control on a form by using the VFP OLEContainer control.

Does it apply? I'm OK with the ActiveX though, same thing.