>>>In VFP 5.0 when I issue a frmObject.Show() method, the form itself is not enabled until the user clicks the form's title bar or one of the form's controls. I am issuing an Object.SetFocus() method immediately after the Show() method, so the user can see the textbox where the focus is set, but when they start typing nothing happens. You can see the title bar's color is dissabled until you click on the form. Once the form is clicked everything works fine.
You might try putting the Object.SetFocus() in the frmObject.GotFocus event code.