Karl,

>I'm trying to digest what I've heard
>you all say and then I will try another forum.
>
>Do you know of any as good as UT?

As good as the UT in terms of interface and features? -- I don't know of one.

As good as the UT in terms of user community and helpfulness? -- there are some good ones:

www.foxforum.com
www.west-wind.com/wwthreads

and the "fox programmers exchange" newsgroup on MS news servers -- sorry I don't have the link handy.