Jim,

>We are ernestly trying to begin to evenhandedly enforce these rules.

This is the key to the whole process, I believe. Once it becomes clear that *anyone* can and *will* have accounts frozen, the problem goes away -- either through increased self-control or enforcement action.

>No one except the person warned will ever know that they were warned (unless they decide to go public with it). We beleive this is in the best interest of everyone.

I agree completely. Very wise.