>> The guy's got to learn to think a bit more, methinks.

If your wife ever says:

1. "You do what you think is right". Do exactly what she wants or you'll be paying for it 10 years later!!!

2. "Don't worry about getting me a present" - get one and make it good.

3. "You've won a trip for two to the world series, who do you take?" Any answer that's not her is *wrong*.

4. "How does this look?" This is a trick question. Unless it is totally outlandish or garish, "you look fine" is always a good response. If she's going to be embarassed, let her know delicately. You'll still pay for it but less than what will happen the other way.

These four ought to get him through the day-to-day stuff. He's on his own for the big stuff.