>>So much for clarity and inambiguity of English :)
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>You're joking, right? :)

That's just for starters... :)

>>No, but she should get this marked as a reply to her message (UT does it for all the messages which are a response or a response upon response (iterate...) to your message).
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>I don't know about you, but I only get messages that have me in the "To" section, even if I started the thread, unless they CC me. I've learned to keep doing a Map of my threads or to mark them as watched otherwise someone will reply to me, and then someone will reply to that person with an answer for me and I won't see it.

That's probably something we have set differently, and I can't figure what, though I'm updating my account more often recently (note the changing tagline, which also deals with the language the Brits and Americans are divided by :). I'm seeing nth replies to threads I took part in long ago as replies to my messages.