>>>I, myself would be, as Americans say, "pissed off" (which, as they tell me, is a bad thing by itself, but they still prefer this "off" to "on", for unknown reasons :).
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>>Well, which *would* you rather be? ;)
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>A negative, sir, like in "I would rather not" :).

True. It's not really just an "either/or" kind of choice. You can choose to remain calm and avoid the "situation" altogether. :)