>I'm a farmer's daughter myself. I also have a "helpless" family, and a job where there is no backup for me.
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>>My collegue is mulling over her options on going. You see she is a farmer's wife and a programmer. It seems that besides the kids needing care, the farm animals (and chores) have to be taken care of. So for her to be gone it requires someone to take over for her. I have told her time and time again that the cows can be used for food and then she would not have to worry about them. I guess I just dont understand the cattle trade...
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>>I will let you know when and if she decides...

She just came in and decided not to go this year. She could not arange things at home. Sorry about that. I will keep my ears open for anyone else I could send your way.