>>>Doesn't matter what your intent or goal is. What matters is how others perceive your intent or goal. Herein lies the trouble I'd think. By the kinds of responses you are receiving I'd say in general you are NOT acheiveing your intent.
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>>The first thing they teach you in Communications 101 is "It's not what is said, but how it is interpreted".
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>Craig,
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>What do you mean by that?!?!?!

I don't understand your question.