Hi Michelle....
I know that you will get a lot of excellent answers and I just wanted to add my morale (not a typo! < s >) support.
What has happened to you is hard and I'm sorry you are going through it. You will be in my families thoughts, wishes, and prayers. Good luck!
Tom Gahagan
Alliance
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