<< am using a grid now, but I don't get a mouse pointer. Its like I'am in the column with a |(similiar character) showing. Its hard to point and click for the user.>>
I haven't done it myself, but the way I was told to do this was to place an invisible shape over the grid, capture the x-y mouse coordinates in the click event of the shape and pass it to the grid. The gridhittest can figure out where to move the record pointer. I don't remember all the details, but it's along these lines.
HTH