I've only been active here a short while, & I have a learning mode which leads me to profess things I HOPE work and let others who know better show me the error of my ways

I've run into many very helpful people, several at a level similar to my own, and have only a couple of put downs by those far more knowledgable than myself.

I can understand how a bad first experience could put someone off, but please, if the people didn't care, they wouldn't be here to help us! So if they are a bit harsh at times, well, I get testy at times too!

Oh, Cindy, I wondered if you were biting your tongue hard enough to injure it ? Go home early, it's Xmas, ( or the Holiday Season or whatever! For sure the days are getting longer! And THAT is reason enough to celebrate!