>>If I select a row and I want to delete the next row. When the Deleted Event launch, the focus is still on the previous row. So all the commands are executed for the previous Row.
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>>I have to do some things when the user deletes a record. I don't know how to change the record before the deleted event occurs.
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>why do you want to delete the NEXT record?

I found a solution. I did not use the delete mark. I put a button delete at the end of the row in the grid. When the user press the button, the triggers start. All the problems I found when using the delete mark don't appear anymore. Now, the refresh of the grid works great too.