>How do I get a menu to show up for that form, only that form, now that the VFP menu is gone?

See HOWTO: Display a Form in a Top-Level Form on Startup


>>a) Is marked with "ShowWindow = 2, Top Level Form"
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>>b) This form is opened as part of the EXE startup code.
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>>c) There is a Read Events after this form is opened
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>>If all of these are true, your form should be showing, 'floating' on your desktop.