I FOUND IT!!!!!!!
AWESOME!!!!
SIMPLE FIX!!!
I TURNED OFF OLEMISC_SIMPLEFRAME!!!
That was the culprit!! SWEET SUCCESS!! What a Rush!
Now it always returns the FORM and not the control. OLEMISC_SIMPLEFRAME was needed for composite controls for VB4 to make them paint correctly if the container wasn't smart in the early days of ActiveX!
Thanks for all the help!!