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The problem is, the ladies are "diggin'" me too much (believing that I'm Mr. Strahl) and my wife is *not* pleased.
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Parsing this sentence... One possible interpretation of this is:

She is not pleased that other ladies are digging you, but not un-pleased since you now resemble Rick....< bg >

Perhaps you will want to qualify this statement further...< vbg >....

English is a precise language....< g >