>In this, and other, technical forums, I do not think that anyone should have any problem with responding in a socially acceptable manner. There should be no problem in apologising if you responses are seen to be offensive. Because of the multi-cultural nature of the forum, we should understand that there are going to be differences in what is socially acceptable & be sensitive to that.

I sometimes did a lot of mistakes in my responses but I've ate my pride to say sorry because I know that it is the best way to do. Rare to find people who the technical know-how and the ability to lead. Great Leaders pushes up people, not to kick and let them down further.

SUBSTR("CHRISTIAN",7,3)

gives me "IAN" which means "I AM NOTHING"

>(Before anyone adds further to my behaviour in the chatter forum, I believe that is a different arena & setup to allow a freer exchange of opinions.)