Tom,
Congratulations! I hope this will be a very special time for you and your wife.
I recommend you return to San Antonio for a second honeymoon. You will find it has changed a lot in 36 years (is that stating the obvious?) -- but it's a great place now. I lived in Southern California for many years, and have really enjoyed my move here.
Have a terrific anniversary!
Pete
Pete Donahoe
Once a programmer, always a programmer!