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>I am not questioning whether you have a right, but rather, how you excercise the right. A lesson I have to keep reminding myself of everyday as there have been many times when I have not excercised my rights in the best way I could..

Yes, that's right. But sometimes if we do not express our feelings in a very clear way (taking precautions of misunderstood), our message will not take the desired effect. In the case in question, that person really need to see that here (at UT) has Many peoples working hard for the diffusion of a tool VFP.

Oh, John, in other words, what you meant is that I must talk with that person using something like:

Dear person,

As a reponse for your needs..


Do you really believe, answering with affectionate words this person would understand that she needs to be more sensitive in the questions that involves: our Jobs, our researchs, our studies, plans for the future, etc..

If you really believe that. Our thoughts have miles of it distances of difference. So, the minimum that should do (from now on) and we respect ourselves


Claudio