>The situation at home and sometimes in the office is the same 3 male aginst me. But this is not trammel me to command all of them.

Commanding is opposite to democracy. You only have to make them wish to do what you need :)

I'm not complaining - happily surrounded with wife and three daughters (one married now), even the guinea pig is female. We had a male parrot at home, but the traitor once started laying eggs :)