1. The only way you can change names of properties, methods or events of some control is to create wrapper ActiveX control, which implements functionality of basic control and changes names of properties, methods or events.

2. You cannot change names of some properties, methods and events, because they are Ambient or Extender members. Some examples:

Properties: Align, Cancel, ToolTipText, Name, Left, Top, Width, Height;
Methods: Drag, Move, SetFocus, ZOrder;
Events: DragDrop, DragOver GotFocus.

This is because these members are not members of the control. I.e. when you place control on the container, CONTAINER adds these members to control and you cannot change this behavior.
Read MSDN article "Extender object" for further information and complete list of Extender members.

P.S. About refreshind report: read MSDN article "Recordset object" for further information.