I have a most perplexing problem wich is driving me insane

I have 2 tables A and B

I create a view AB joining the two tables

If I delete a Record from Table A and Browse Table A or the View AB the record is gone (set deleted on) and is the behavior i desire

If I use the view in a grid the deleted records still show up - problem

I concidered using a cursor to popluate the grid - works but I can only have one index which is a problem (header sorting/etc.)

Stumped and Not sure what to do

Thanks for your help and advice