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>>True enough, but you've placed yourself into it. I think my points would stand regardless of the particular community. At some point communication skills (or lack thereof) will out.
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>Any introductory college course on communications will tell you that it's not what is said that is important, but how it is interpreted by the receiving party.

Add to that only 25% of what is said is understood by others and it gives "real meaning" to the word "communications"! :)