>>>IMO, you will have better success if you write a program to determine how to
>>>make your wife happy...
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>>Time for the wife's opinion -
>>My husband just bought me a nice gift. Every time I think of it or look at it I feel special.
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>Cindy;
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>I am going to buy my wife a gift because she is special. Thank you for your thoughts.

We had gotten out of the habit of trying to make each other feel special. A gift, even a small one, can change things quite a bit - like clearing the "laundry list" of bad deeds that Mark mentioned.