I said I'd post information when I got some, so here it is.
Tom's family is not having a funeral. His body is being cremated. I got this information from the mortuary.
We are attempting to get in touch with Tom's son to see if the family plans to have a memorial service at some future date, but so far none is planned. If I hear anything different, I'll let you all know.
This is personally upsetting to me, but I guess the family's entitled to do whatever they want.
~~Bonnie