>Title bar of forms does not seem to take on the windows theme look in XP. Other windows elements, like command buttons and the overall external form, as well as Windows elements such as messageboxes do take on look.

I'm using WinXP Silver. Even in VFP7 the title bar of the form and the title bar of the VFP IDE look exactly the same - they have a "rounded" silver look. I'm curious what you're seeing.