Not as easy to come across as you might of hoped for. In order to do video conferencing you have to have some type of broadcast server running on each of the machines. (netmeeting does this). Problem is that if you get a hold of any 3rd party ones they're most likey going to cost some $.
I've been using www.eyeballchat.com for a long time and it works even better than netmeeting. I know they have an SDK you can get from www.eyeball.com but it's probably several 1000 dollars.
If you want to spend zero money and just a bit of time there is a way you can do it with the windows media broadcast server (to transmist the audio/video) and the windows media encoder (to recive the audio/video). I've been wanting to do this for a long time myself but just haven't found the time to do it.

>I have users who want to be able to do video conferencing from within the application. I figure there are a couple easy ways (I really mean I am hoping).
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>I was thinking I could utilize Netmeeting if it is installed on there machine. I have been able to drop a net meeting object onto a form, but I don't know how to create it within code.
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>What the users want is video and voice. No app sharing (yet) or anything.
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>Does anyone know of an easy and inexpensive activex that does it?
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>Kirk