>Perhaps you should consider finding the best possible job you can ANYWHERE in the U.S. and then your husband can relocate to where you are instead of vice versa. :o) I know, bad form on my part...
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Well, from the two of us it's better me to be housewife. He was for almost a year and would not want to repeat this experience. I'm at this moment in Columbus, we still have our apartment in Boston. So, we're paying double. We would like to not break all the ties with Boston and I actually love to live there.

Though Columbus is also nice city... He has some Russian friends here already... And the real estate is 3-4 times cheaper than in Boston...