>Thought about your comments, i'm trying to do a one to may relationship so why is this a problem.
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>Is set skip only for a one to one relationship?

No: SET SKIP _is_ for one-to-many, and it causes the behavior seen here, which made a lot more sense before grids were invented. :-)

I haven't used SET SKIP (or the OneToMany property on the relation object) for quite a while: usually just setting the relation will work for me.