>>>> “Yes, I know what you mean. That is a terrible problem. I empathize with you. Too bad there is no solution, but we must learn how to move on in life”.
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>>>Tom, you missed your calling. I found myself suddenly at peace after reading this :)
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>>You go to a Priest and express a real world problem. The answer was perhaps given to all Priests during their education at the Seminary: “This too shall pass my son”!
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>...or as the Zen Buddhist would say "No need to push the river. It runs all by itself!"...

Jos;

There have been times in life I have tried to push the river upstream. It does not work well. It is easier to go with the flow sometimes.

Tom