The workaround, "hacking of URL, etc.", that some were doing was not good. This has last for a short time. Once we discovered that some members decided to invest a few minutes to do this workaround just to get a single message, despite the fact that we couldn't believe it, we had to readjust as this was an open door some were using and that was going against the commercial aspect of the site.


It had nothing to do with hacking. It was finding the date and then manually going through the calendar. Annoying enough to encourage paying to avoid the hassle while still allowing BUTMs to search. It had been openly going on for years until you suddenly wondered why so many BUTMs were searching and took that work around away.

Maybe you could elaborate what you mean by "treated". Did you receive some content from one of our staff which was not a good representation of the service?

It wasn't one of your staff; it was you. If you've forgotten, then I really don't care to rehash it. I shouldn't have aluded to it at all. That was a lapse of judgement on my part. Since I've come back, I've been trying to make a point of keeping my opinions to myself. I made a mistake in this case.

Michelle