>I'd like a check box in PUTM settings (it may be there, but I wasn't able to find one) that disables the following:
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>1. Displaying my name in the "Who's online" list
>2. Displaying my log in status
>3. Displaying my name in the "Who's read this messsage" list

Mike;

I have to agree with you. This is a matter of the “feature set” taking priority over your privacy. As a PUTM you should have this ability. People should have choice. When it comes to privacy people should have a say in what and how information is used.

Many things are technically possible. Some people have the ability to realize that technology for the sake of technology is not what everyone wants. Bells, whistles and glitz may impress some while offending others.

Should consideration for others be given or should we just accept everything without question?

Tom