I have a few years to 'join the club' myself (49/25 for those who are interested). Maybe it is correct what was said at a VFP devcon many years ago: VFP programmers are not like ordinary people.

>>Tom,
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>>>Outstanding! Three other developers in my department have been married for over 30 years. I think we all understand the term “commitment”! :)
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>>52 and married 29 years. And I think we all understand the phrases "moments of bliss" and "years of hard work." :-)
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>Amen! Welcome to the club! :)