John,
I really don't believe I'm sensationalizing.
In more than one post, you've included part of a narrative of what occured. While I never believed that you were trying to provide a full accounting, you did state 'despite an immediate apology', implying that you understood the sequence of events. I was simply drawing facts to your attention. (My frustration is more with how the messaging system was utilized that night).
If the term offended you in any way, I do apologize, it wasn't my intention.
I was not really 'afraid', but was certainly angry at the time.
Kevin