Ok this is what I have so far.
But it does not use the tableupdate(), what do i need to change to add that?

CLOSE DATABASES ALL 
CLEAR

customerid='ALFKI'

LOCAL oCA as CursorAdapter

oCA=CREATEOBJECT("CursorAdapter")
oCA.AddProperty("customerid",'ALFKI')
oCA.SelectCmd="select * from Northwind..Orders where customerID = ?this.customerid"
oCA.KeyFieldList = "OrderID"
oCA.UpdatableFieldList = "Customerid, employeeid, freight, orderdate, orderid"
oCA.UpdateNameList = "Customerid orders.customerid, employeeid orders.employeeid, "+ ;
   "freight orders.freight, orderdate orders.orderdate, orderid orders.orderid"
oCA.CursorSchema = "customerid c(5), employeeid i, freight y, orderdate d, orderid i"

LOCAL oConn as ADODB.Connection, oRS as ADODB.Recordset, oCom as ADODB.Command

oConn=CREATEOBJECT("ADODB.Connection")
oConn.Open("Provider=SQLOLEDB.1;Integrated Security=SSPI;Persist Security Info=False;Data Source=(local)")

oRS = CREATEOBJECT("Adodb.RecordSet")
oRS.ActiveConnection = oConn
ors.CursorType = 3
ors.CursorLocation = 3
ors.LockType = 3


oCom = CREATEOBJECT("Adodb.Command")
oCom.ActiveConnection = oConn

oCA.DataSourceType="ADO"
oCA.DataSource=oRS

?oCA.CursorFill(,,,oCom)
BROWSE

oCA.customerid='HILAA'

oCA.CursorRefresh()
BROWSE


USE

If I change data in cursor one then rerun the changes are there. But really want to use tableupdate to validate noone else has changed.