Nancy,
Following code I used is from standart VFP samples:
oForm = THISFORM
oForm.AddObject('oWordDoc','OleControl','WordDocument')
oForm.oWordDoc.Height = THISFORM.txtFrame.height
oForm.oWordDoc.Width = THISFORM.txtFrame.width
oForm.oWordDoc.Top = THISFORM.txtFrame.top
oForm.oWordDoc.Left = THISFORM.txtFrame.left
oForm.oWordDoc.Visible = .t.
oForm.Show
oForm.oWordDoc.DoVerb(0)
oWordRef = GetObject('','word.basic')
You can find this for more details under Help, Sample apps, ActivX, Automate MSW in form.

I'done it once and it worked. I hope it will help. Good luck!