I would recommend Click Yes. http://www.contextmagic.com/express-clickyes/
The price is right (Free!) and it comes with sample FoxPro code. I used it and was very happy. Outlook Redemption is good but more complicated to use though it has more features.

>Hey there!
>Now that I got several variants to send mail (OLE Outlook, MAPIMAIL.VCX,..) to myself when some error or critical action occurs at a customer, I´d like to avoid this 'A prg is trying to send..' (Outlook) dialog, cuz I don´t want the user to intervene.
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>Thanks
>G