My main program

Do FORM YourMainForm
READ EVENTS

In config.fpw
SCREEN = OFF

Properties for MainForm

.WINDOWTYPE = 0 && MODELESS
.SHOWWINDOW = 2 && AS TOP LEVEL FORM
.VISIBLE = .T.
.ENABLED = .T.

(Thanks to Elmer Adkins)
Ok now I have all of that. And it solves the problem of it sitting in the foxpro enviroment - now the form sits there happy (for about 5 seconds) then closes with out me doing anything.