Michel,
You can use the ToolboxBitmap attribute to define the custom bitmap. The ToolboxBitmapAttribute class offers a number of constructors including using a embedded resource. The following is taken from the MSDN documentation:-
namespace NamespaceA
{
[ToolboxBitmap(typeof(ControlA), "MyBitmap.bmp")]
public class ControlA : System.Windows.Forms.UserControl
{
...
}
...
}
Regards
Neil