>>Someone puts a troll alert on a message and they are essentially subjectively trying to put their values and moral code on me. It's not necessary. I'm a big boy. I can choose for myself without any assistance from Ned Flanders.

With respect, nobody is directing anything at you. The message would not be addressed to you unless you are the one being provocative. I've already said the message is intended for the target of the cruelty who, provoked beyond endurance, may be about to lash back in a terminal fashion. Not sure why this keeps turning into a story about you- especially when you've said that people should simply ignore messages they do not like.