>I would also like to ask what would be a proper response from an agnostic to someone who wishes me merry Christmas, while we're in the "does not apply" department. If I wished the same back, does it have any validity, coming from an unbeliever? Because I only wish them to have good time and be happy for their holidays. Also, what would be a polite way to thank for good wishes, however misguided they were, knocking on wrong door? I usually manage a slightly confused smile and a few not-fully-articulated words, because I really don't know what to say, and I don't want to offend you. Just like I wish not to be offended. So... what's proper?


It's hard for me to describe my reaction but it usually depends upon context.

Most of the time it's an innocuous greeting with no religious significance. Even in the secular world it's a happy time --- lots of lights, music (I'm not Christian but I LOVE Christmas music, even the religious type), invigorating weather (cold, but not brutally so), etc. There's no reason to take offense because there's no offense intended. I simply smile, say "Thank you" and frequently add "To you too."

If it's some individual or group going from door-to-door, then I tend to react a little more. My usual response is either

1. Thank you but I don't celebrate Christmas or,
2. Thank you. I hope you have/had a Happy Chanukah

followed by immediate door closing.