>>>Have him reverse-connect to you.
>>>Use VNC's listening client.
>>
>>>The only IP that needs to be public is yours.
>>
>>I too use DSL Broadband & can't seem to find my own IP address.
>
>At either end, to get your IP go to http://www.whatismyip.com


Or use ipconfig
or
go to your router admin settings and look at the dhcp settings.